One of the questions I always ask is how long have these issues been present in your relationship? It is not unusual to hear the couple respond in terms of months and years.
When it comes to relationships, one of the most meaningful things you can do is ask questions that you DON’T know the answer to. It is a way to express curiosity and wonder about this person you care about.
One of the common myths of marriage is that good marriages have little or no conflict. Most likely you know, cognitively, about this myth. We realize that arguments are bound to happen between two people in a relationship.
The floors of this Relationship House are supported by two columns: Trust and Commitment. Trust is basically the answer to the question: Are you there for me?
Perpetual problems center on fundamental differences between you and your partner. They may be differences in personality, temperament, values, or world views.